Agreed with a capitol A!! But it is hard, oh so hard, because one may have to give up the notion that boss loves them and will save them one day, sometimes soon.
There has been a number of things that have been written on this thread that would act as the pointing finger if the learner really wants to know---If one does not know what to do, then that one should ask.
B.
One of the comments is refering to the video 'Cry Freedom'- for the door to be opened one must knock.